Summer has come and is lingering on the calendar even though school has begun here in my hometown. Even though summer weather is at its peak, I have had the yen to knit and crochet fun summer and winter projects with fabulous yarns.
I am a fan of shawlettes. I think you should be, too. I wear them year round and depending on the materials used, they afford those who wear them variety and light or heavy coverage. I often take one in my purse to church and restaurants to throw around my shoulders when the AC draft whispers around my neck.
I think that’s one reason I enjoyed making this linen piece from yarn I purchased on a recent trip to St. Simon’s Island, GA. After showing it to friends I decided I would list it in my Etsy shop, due to their enthusiasm over the weight, feel, and drape. Better than that, it can be washed and dried in the washing machine! Yep! Linen! I know! Buy it!
But before I began that one, I worked on a faux fur-trimmed number that had a knitted lace-edging on it. Again, this was yarn I purchased while at the beach last summer. My souvenir of choice on trips is yarn of late! The shop sample of this piece was in neutral colors, but they no longer had all the supplies in neutral so I got brave and bold and decided on the red and oh my! The faux fur feels real! The fabric of the knitted body of the piece has a lovely drape and can be worn a couple of ways. Wrapped, draped, free and loose. But, it’s sure to keep you warm and glamorous in winter. Will that ever happen? Winter, I mean. I’m sure you’re glamorous always. ; ) It, too, is now available in my Etsy shop due to my friends’ grand reception of it. I should have taken their pictures trying it on. It was dress up for grown ups and it was grand!
While traveling in Maine on our 30th anniversary trip in June, I took a project to knit while on the plane and riding in the car. This sock yarn scarf will look cute this fall with my olive green safari-like vest from Target. I’m not selling it…unless you want it. Then, I’ll sell it.
And before all of these, I whipped up a scarf in hand-painted yarn I bought at Stitches South in 2015. It’s the same pattern as that raspberry shawlette at the top, but because I bought a smaller amount of the yarn, the finished project is smaller. It’s not for sale. I wear it A. LOT. It goes well with every color in the rainbow and white as well as black. I wore it bunches in Maine.
This week I began crocheting a shawlette that makes me think of the Gulf of Mexico’s water when it’s at its most clear state and I swear, but I want to eat fresh fish when I am working on it. Here it is in process…
Those are the wonderful fibers I’ve had the privilege to work with this summer and make into wearable fabrics for more couture hand-made accessories.Read More
Today’s text from a younger woman in our church prompted me to consider again this recurring and blessed nudge from God, this commission as spoken by Jesus to his disciples at the end of Matthew, “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you…”
What about you? Are you ever nudged by God about this?
Backing up a bit, I know the need for discipling from the perspective of this younger woman. Giving my heart to Christ as a young teenager was wonderful and memorable, but my growth was sporadic and unguided until I got out of college and became a mom two and a half years later.
Reflecting back to being a young newly married woman, I remember calling a wise woman in our church and asking her if she knew of a Bible study in which I could participate. This woman was someone whose faith I admired from afar. She seemed to have her life together when it came to her ability to share about God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. At the least, I was hoping for an invitation to her Bible study. At the most, I was envisioning being discipled by her, one on one.
But I cannot forget her heartfelt response to me. She steered me to no one – not herself, and not her Bible study group because of my youthfulness and her group’s not-so-youthfulness. She steered me far away from pursuing discipling of any kind.
I hung up the phone dejected and ashamed to have made a cold call to this woman.
Fast forwarding now, I have been blessed in the years since that phone call being in the providential combo of right place and time of receiving from godly women – from group Bible studies, to one-on-one over steaming coffee, to authors who challenged me from afar unbeknownst to their discipling affect on my soul through the words in books.
The common denominator of all those life-giving and life changing encounters with godly women was the Word of God as central to nurturing younger women. Repeatedly pointing me back to truths found in Scripture was key to my growth.
Being a new mom challenged my faith and mentors pointed me to the solidity of the gospel in keeping Jesus at the center of my calling to parent. This sustained me through all the phases of parenting. I knew to whom I could drag my weary soul at the end of a hard day and it was to the Trinity. Women discipling me faithfully pointed me there.
Praying was never my strong suit, but through my discipling relationships, I learned how to pray alone and in community. I learned that God was to be the first ears to hear my heart’s burdens and not my husband’s, friends’, or mentors’. I saw confidentiality modeled and godly strength upheld. I saw repentance and seeking forgiveness displayed. I learned the value of communicating regularly with God.
And I learned the value of being invested in by godly (not perfect) women who gave of their time to come alongside me. For them, I am thankful.
I know the benefits of discipleship. Women discipling women are a breath of fresh air in the Church. To pour into another life (through the power of the Holy Spirit) as I’ve been blessed is a valuable benefit of being an active part of a church body.
I will talk with my younger friend and find out what God has laid on her heart. I will do my best to encourage and teach her as others have modeled for me. I will keep the gospel at the heart of our relationship. I will share my failures and flaws, my meager attempts and few successes, by God’s grace. I will ask her to disciple others, too, at the right time.
Is it time for you to do the same?Read More
It has been a while since I have had a day like this one. My planner has no directives for places to go. My list of things to do is small and so I plan to knock out those couple of penned plans, and then enjoy catching up on those back burner ones which have been simmering in my mind.
Perhaps like you, I have been seriously duped into believing that the empty nest equals an empty calendar. So a word of advice to you younger women about your seasonal busyness and dreaming of lazy days ahead-
It takes work ahead of time and a commitment to your spirit and your sanity to get those lazy days worked in on your calendar no matter the season in which you find yourself.
Still lounging in my pjs and writing this post past noon, I am pondering things like:
I am not sure how I let myself get too stretched and then stressed like a weakening rubber band bundling way more than its cylindrical strength will accommodate. Like that rubber band stretching farther than it should before snapping and releasing all of its hold down to the floor, I can also be stretched past the point of allowance and burst. When that occurs it manifests itself in ugly ways like judgmental thoughts and comments, criticism, sarcasm, short words with Rob, mindless munching, and a huge desire to drop everything and hide.
Then I make promises to God, Rob, and myself that I will never ever overdo my schedule again. Ever. Ever.
Then I go to bed, get a solid eight (most nights), and awaken to a renewed sense of being helpful and following through with great joy on those commitments.
So it is on a rare day like today that I sense the Lord saying to me to build in space for empty time. Granted when I was a college student that looked like a nap between classes. Then as a working wife outside the home, it was Saturday watching PBS with my husband while taking care of laundry. As a young mom and homemaker, it was a 15-minute bath with pen and journal in hand. Building in some time came easier when the boys were in school. Now that I’m a mom to adult sons and their wives and now their children, my free time is still limited as my time to get more involved in ministering to women has opened up. It is also my pleasure to be available to help my family, much like I remember specific women in our families who could assist us at a moment’s notice when the boys were little.
Yet, I am still learning repeatedly that if I am not careful to protect some quality down time to refresh and refuel my spirit, then I will be of no value to those in my family, in ministry, and friendships.
I rarely build in blank space on my calendar. And I want to be more intentional to do so in order to be a happier helper of those to whom I’ve committed my time. Today, God has been gracious to remind me that it is a good and necessary thing for this child of his.
Are days like this rare for you? If so, how do you sense God is directing you?Read More